Bringing home a kitten is equal parts thrilling and hair-raising. One minute you’re cooing over them, the next you’re wondering if your home is ready for a whirlwind of curiosity and claws.
To help you start off on the right foot, feline behaviourist Lucy Hoile shares practical advice on preparing your home, settling your kitten in and supporting them as they grow into a confident adult cat.

Kittens explore with enthusiasm and very little awareness of danger. Before they arrive, take time to make your home as safe as possible:
A safe environment will allow your kitten to explore with confidence.
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It’s easy to overbuy, but focusing on essentials will help your kitten settle quickly:
Providing vertical space and scratching options early on is a wise investment, as it’s likely to save your furniture in the long run.
It’s also a good idea to get your kitten’s healthcare started early. You should consider:

The first day can feel overwhelming for your kitten. Keep things calm and contained.
Set them up in one quiet room with:
Spend time sitting quietly with them and observe their behaviour. When they begin exploring confidently – tail upright, approaching you willingly – you can gradually introduce another room.
Avoid big changes like redecorating or hosting lots of visitors during the early days. Let your kitten move at their own pace.
As they grow more confident, add extra beds and climbing spaces throughout the home so they can claim the whole house as their territory.

Kittens have strong hunting instincts and need regular interactive play:
If you’re able to adopt two compatible kittens, they can help burn off each other’s energy.
Kittens need frequent small meals and plenty of rest.
Let your kitten approach you first. Gentle, brief stroking sessions are best, as kittens can become overstimulated quickly.
If you lift them, support all four paws and keep them upright. Avoid placing them on their back, and put them down if they struggle.
Not all cats enjoy being carried, and that’s okay. Respecting their boundaries will help to build trust.

Yes, if you live in England. Since June 2024, it’s a legal requirement for pet cats to be microchipped before they reach 20 weeks old. The microchip stores your contact details in a registered database, helping reunite you with your kitten if they ever go missing.
While it’s not compulsory in Scotland, Wales or Northern Ireland, it’s still a worthwhile safeguard.
Likewise, even if you have an indoor cat, microchipping is still strongly recommended. Cats can slip out unexpectedly, and collars can fall off. A microchip provides permanent identification and can offer peace of mind for cat owners.
Your kitten should be neutered, vaccinated and microchipped before exploring outdoors. They also need to feel fully settled indoors first.
When it’s time to let your cat outside, supervise them closely. And keep initial sessions short so they don’t become overwhelmed.
Kittens thrive on interaction. Leaving them alone for long periods isn’t ideal. If possible, consider adopting two kittens with compatible personalities.
If you occasionally need to leave them:
Cats prefer freedom within their territory, and generally shouldn’t be confined in a kennel or crate overnight.
If you’re worried about household safety, you can keep your kitten in one secure room overnight from day one. Be consistent so they learn the routine, and make sure the room is warm and comfortable.
Crying often stems from frustration, especially if they’re shut away from you. If you respond by immediately opening the door, they may learn to repeat the behaviour.
Instead, think carefully about your long-term set-up. Offer affection when they seek it, and consult your vet if you’re concerned about their health.
Every kitten has their own personality. Some naturally seek constant affection, while others prefer space.
Positive socialisation, gentle handling and respecting boundaries can all help to build a strong bond. While you can’t force a kitten to be cuddly, you can create an environment where they feel safe enough to choose closeness.